Wednesday, June 10, 2009

那天有家長問我小寶的日程表,然後說了一句:「她還有時間玩!」

她還是個幼稚園生罷了,怎麼連玩的時間也不給?不要說孩子,大人也要有玩的時間,要有「歎吓」的時候吧。熱心本身沒有什麼好與不好,最怕是過予熱心地干預,干預人家的事,孩子中間發生的,雞毛蒜皮的事。

你咬著我們不放也沒有用,我們即使不是享樂派,也實在天生有幾根懶骨頭。人生在世,不快快樂樂地過活,不是很糟蹋嗎?

1 comment:

winterbird said...

sometimes I see children going to all these "after school" classes, I feel really sorry for them. like you said, this could be the only time in their lives where they don't have real worries and can just have some fun. To rob those times away from them is cruel!