那天跟朋友吃飯，他提及十歲的兒子最近遭學校投訴，原因是一男同學跟家長說，曾被他從後抱了一下，構成不安．
十歲孩子的一些身體接解，未必是同性戀吧！我中一二時也曾看到男生們玩得很變態（其實女生也有古怪遊戲，在此不多說）．我想很多人成長中都有白痴行為，真的要事事告訴母親嗎？
同事們概歎現在的孩子沒有求生本能，太依賴父母幫助，動輒向學校投訴．坦白說，誰沒給欺負過？學校是社會縮影，又可以逃到何時？倒不如趁早實習一下．解決方法離不開軟、硬（一是收買他，一是買麻布袋收拾他）和乾脆不理．當然，最好有強大的後援，人多好辦事，贏面也大一點．你什麼時候見過人緣好的人會給欺負？
鬥不過才逃吧！一開始便逃很沒體育精神呢！
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I can't beleive I am saying this. But I do think the media has a part to play in "giving out too much information" to kids. Hitting the kids head with too much "suggestions" and "information" that they cannot process properly could be a problem.
Stuff like "is someone touching you?", "are you being bullied?", "tell your parents if your teacher hit you?"... I am not sure if a 10 year old can process all these messages in a proper way, so they might "cry wolf" for the smallest thing!
I remember a colleage of mine said every time the school calls her to discuss her kid's behavioural problem - it becomes a teacher vs parent situation.
Everything is distorted these days, but what can you do?
係啦，雖然我都覺得校園欺凌事件不可鼓吹，D人真係可以好變態的。但係真係唔可以太誇張，成日都懷疑對方有企圖的話，咁生活都好無意思啫。
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