那天P提到讀男女校的話,女孩子可能會習慣依賴男生。我心中有話不吐不快。
我和我那些志趣相投的女朋友們,自小便不會放棄任何依賴男生的好機會,但或許是我們條件不濟技術不佳,多年來,他們能幫忙的,不外乎是一些粗重的工夫罷了。也有師兄自動請纓要替我們補化學的,但結果有一個還未開始教便先想摸我們的手。豈有此理,差點一巴掌刮過去。假如他英俊瀟洒的話,自然沒話說,偏偏他又不是。要摸手,起碼讓我的化學科在會考拿了A再說吧(唔,但我讀文科)。另一個免費補習老師是高材生,沒做錯什麼,只是突然不想應酬他,放了他鴿子,馬上換來「要生要死刀仔拮大脾」,一張清單長又長,全是他認為自己付出了但你卻自問從沒落單的。非常可怕,難道問你一條算術題,便要簽賣生契嗎?依賴這回事,往往連父母都幫不上忙,男生,還是算了吧,不是沒能力的,便是太小器,再不然便是有點心理變態的。當你找到個十全十美的,假如他對你沒意思,那這樣的大好人大多被人煩得不可開交。否則,你倆乾脆拍拖算了,還說什麼依賴不依賴呢?
讀男女校的好處反倒是:不會抱無謂的幻想,求人不如求己。另外是習慣了跟他們說廢話,你哄我我哄你再騙騙他,適可而止,大家happy。
2 comments:
Hahaha... very funny post :)
I have been in co-ed all my life, one thing I noticed from girls who came from all-girl school is that: they usually have certain (unrealistic) expectations about men and relationships, simply because they didn't have enough interactions with men in normal social settings. So you're right. One good thing about co-ed is: the secret is out, there are all different types of men around and no all of them will or can change the light bulb or kill the cockroach for you. Or you'd realise that you might not want them to do those things for you. It's not just about understanding guys better, it's also about understanding yourself better - how you'd react and behave in regards to men.
我真想鼓掌,說得再對沒有了。
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