也就是共同責任制。
L告訴我她的孩子（八歲）在暑假時參加了一個日營。入營的孩子一律不得帶金錢和食物進營，一切物資要在營中靠小組努力「賺」來。她的女兒一組，就為了一碟炒麵，弄得整組的孩子沒午飯吃，要捱肚餓。
事緣有一位孩子不聽大家勸告（「不要買啦，這不但貴，又不知道好不好吃。」），買了一碟炒麵回來，結果發現不好吃而剩下不少。導師說：「你們一定要把食物吃光，剩下的麵條逐條計算扣錢。」其他人把叫了但不想吃的早餐勉強吃下，但那孩子堅持不肯吃，共扣了HK$128（我想是營中專用的虛擬貨幣吧），令全組只剩下HK＄50，大家中午要一起捱餓，記下這教訓。
小寶的學校也是，紀律上常以小組／班為單位，那天有同學在午膳後的自由活動時間走了那條老師說「不可用，否則會迷路的樓梯」，結果全班罰站（包括告發事情的同學在內）。小寶有時也會扁嘴，說她那組有三位男同學常害得她們那組給扣分。
我說：「那你們自己處理一下，組員的事也是自己的事啊！」
在社會，無論你是電梯維修員、醫生、消防員、地盤督工、老師...每個人的決定何嘗不是影響一大班人？人是群體裡的一員，要獨善其身，你我分得明確，是很難的事。「連坐制」好啊！在學校推行，殘忍程度有限。在真正的社會裡，才真的牽一髮而動全身，動輒要人命呢！
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Wow, sounds like boot camp for kids... no lunch for kids? In the US, they would be sued for child abuse! Ah... do we need to let the kids experience the REAL world so early?
haha... I support this kind of discipline. school is like mini society, it's always good to let the children realise their own action carry consequences and their action always "affect" other people. What a priceless value to learn - and I bet they won't forget this - better than their own parents "preaching" the same value.
plus, I don't think the school or the camp would really "harm" the children, missing one meal is not the end of the world. Make them cherish the next meal more.
although if that happen in my team all these years ago - I bet the "culprit" would be receiving "internal team punishment" as well. :)
係呀，我覺得係無傷害性的事情上受下教訓，好過大過後全無預備的狠狠跌上一交。（事實上，我們都試過給別人「跣一鑊」。）
小寶那組昨日數學比賽本來得勝有鉛筆做獎品，但其後老師發現她左邊的男同學（同組）作弊（可惜作弊得儍，對得分全無影響），全組取消資格。後來她右邊的男同學又被罵站，全組扣了三粒星。
小寶沒有太不高興，有點「命苦式」的抱怨。我也許是想起自己的童年，和那些又討厭又可愛的男同學，總覺得太好笑了，一點同情的意思也沒有：「哈哈哈，無辦法啦，你地自己搞掂啦。」
仲有，佢斜後面個肥仔成日叫佢做「女朋友」，激死佢。hahaha，但唔知點解，我聽落又覺得佢的學校生活幾好玩幾開心。
你覺唔覺得，係要有d古古惑惑（往往又聰明過人）的同學搞下事，生活先開心？我以前係廣告公司時，一聽到男同事罵交，就忍唔住偷笑。有次兩個老闆大打出手，仲叉埋頸喎，可惜我開會錯過左，真係遺憾。
或者我心理唔正常。hahaha
Exactly. That's why it's always better if the classroom and office have a balance of female and male.
Boys are generally less "mature" than girls in school, that's why what make them both annoying and funny!
I remember in school, if someone did something wrong and the teacher asked "who did this?", no one would say anything - even though sometimes we have to be punished as a class. :P
講起"邊個做的?"呢類問題,我朋友話有次個仔班個體育老師發惡唔放LUNCH,因為佢問咗呢條問題無人答.
事緣係游泳堂後.佢舉起一條男裝小內褲,好惡地問:
"邊個咁大意漏咗?"
你話有無人會認呢? 真係打死都唔認,將件小事搞到咁大!人地都係小二之嘛,漏咗唔出奇,認左就笑死人.諒佢都唔夠膽檢查!哈哈哈.
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