有一個家長很煩,最近兩次見面都笑咪咪地向我投訴,說了一大堆,實際是繞圈子說小寶"教壞"她的兒子。還要補充說已經"教訓"了兒子:"人家叫你笑同學你便笑,別人自己也沒有笑,你真笨!白讓老師罵。"
誰對誰錯?當然女兒也有耍壞古惑的時候。女,是一定要教的。但那家長也真的煩,小小事情投訴來設訴去,我真為她擔心。而且你自己的兒子做錯了事,你每次都替他找藉口:"都是誰誰教壞他。",有什麼好處?
其實想跟她說: "倒不如擔心一下你的兒子, 這麼容易受女同學影響, 便不應讀女校。"
嘿嘿,欺負男同學?小寶還沒得到媽媽1%的遺傳呢!我當然不是贊成欺負人,只是人際關係,有很多地方不必過分黑白分明的,要靈活處理吧!
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Good luck dealing with troublesome parents. So many of them are so competitive, it's scary. Her son obviously succumbs to peer pressure easily - maybe she should teach him it's OK "not to like everyone else" rather giving making up excuses for him.
sometimes i think some people need a license to have kids :P
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